A lot of times we stuff stuff instead of proclaiming something good and what we really think. We think the conversation situation could be unpredictable. It’s often a risk to say something since we are not sure of the effect our words have in being said to another. And whether saying something is worth saying it, is hard to say.

But on the other hand, not much goes without saying it. Words are all we have to get our point pointed out. One of our forms of nourishment is to be-heard. It’s so good to be able to be heard. And beyond that, understood. Not necessarily eye-to-eye about something, but at least getting the transcript pretty close to what I say is great.

One of the best things we can do for each other is to listen. Fortunately, this is where the action is. You talk, and I get your words and you feel gotten. And now we flip and you get mine. Back, forth, flip, flip, you, me, he said, then we said, then you said and I said. We may have just solved something, got some info out, or  established a position from which we can be seen, since no one always wants to be invisible. All kinds of good things happen in a real back and forth and across.

It’s the way to create. We do it with words. Take that in. The words we say to ourselves are huge, and what we declare and put feeling behind is how we get it all going. To you too, and from me to myself too. Not always audible, but thoughts made clear so we heard it between our own ears.

So great that we can actually say something into being. Like, ‘I love you, man!’ And tons of anything we think important to say, so say it. Bring it here by words. It’s all we got to get going. So let’s go. What you got?

I just want you to know that I promise to slow down and hear what you said.  Did you hear me? If so, we are on-fire. We have it happening between us. Such a common thing, and yet such uncommon beauty stems from us-  created by our words back and forth.

But why should we give each other the time-of-day? Because I feel safe to yack at you? Yep, we’re back to that. We always have to worry about what we are saying.

Let’s do something new. Let’s say that whatever we want to tell each other we can. No holding back, no getting wound up either. Just each of us getting heard and  heard again. Let’s strive for a ‘heard’ mentality. A way to get the great things preserved from our talking and listening is to always allow the saying of it, since once it’s said, it’s out there doing what it’s supposed to do- to be a thought expressed and considered. This lets us process and glean the good from what it is and accept what is usable.

And there’s a certain way for you and me to see each other that will have us listening and receiving the word-created beauty from each other more and more, building a landscape of beautiful, healthy ideas, perfected in their use by the back and forth of free thinking-into-words.

This way of seeing each other is this:  -that I see you are an unlimited, love-being, trying your best in this moment to express what you think is best.  And that there is bound to be something valuable in what you are saying, simply because of who you really are. And I’m all ears- I’m listening for the great part of you, which is bound to be said and heard, because of what I know you to be really and what I’m expecting to hear from listening to you.

And if you see me this same why as I see you, in this accurate way, and we really do see this in each other, then we have a mutual talk-listen-talk-creating energy pop right open and we’re live and making amazing things by sharing our takes.

This seeing  you this way is a gift to you from me. We can promote this way of seeing everybody by everybody. It’s doable and worth the shift. Let’s be gift-givers of this sort of generosity to each other and to all and from this, there’ll be a whole lot of beautiful shakin’ going on in our created conversations. And from here, good things happen times billions. We can use it.